As days and opportunities pass, I’ve been left with a reality that can be met with a multitude of emotions. Mine is fear. For others, it’s anger. Some might find it depressing. But, moving on to what was not your intended, chosen, experienced path takes some mental fortitude; that I didn’t even know I had!
All Those Years Ago
My biggest hang up about moving forward on a career path that I hadn’t considered before was “What about all those years I spent in my former career? Are they all a waste?” First off, everything you do is transferable. And, if you’ve done it long enough, relatable scenarios will transcend all businesses so whatever you’ve accomplished it’ll help you in a new venture regardless. Second, if you’re not finding anything right now in the career you used to have then it’s time to shift to a new brick wall; one you may not need to keep bashing your head against!
What’s My Minimum?
This is more than just about money. My minimum has to be something I don’t mind getting up for to do. If I’m going to hate my replacement career then I can’t follow it. No matter how much (or little) I make, it’s the resentment of what I had before, combined with the frustration of doing something I don’t like that will cause me more damage than being off work. My minimum HAS to be worth getting me out of bed for.
Picture This…
My process of looking for a replacement career was literally me looking at a job title, closing my eyes, and imagining what a typical workday would be for me. If I cringed… pass! I need to picture myself doing the job FIRST before I apply. If I’m not convinced I can handle it, it’ll certainly come out during an interview.
If You’re Still Not Sure, Ask!
So, I bounced my “replacement career” idea off my wife, a couple of friends and even an extended family member. Guess what? They are all so proud of me! Apparently, it’s really brave to move on from what you’ve done all your life. I have support I didn’t expect. And, no one thinks any less of me for trying. I guess I will then!
Let me know if you’re considering a “replacement career.” I’d love to know your thought process.
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